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When to Consider Memory Care

As seen in Aging Over 50 (Summer 2016)

Sometimes it’s a fall. Or a stove left on. Or loneliness. Unlike many illnesses, which tend to develop or emerge suddenly, dementia typically presents as a gradual decline.

The signs can be confusing and easy to miss or misunderstood. Memory loss, confusion and disorientation are not the only signs that someone may be developing Alzheimer’s or another type of dementia. Dementia symptoms can include delusions, agitation, sleepless­ness and extreme personality changes that can profoundly affect what your loved one needs in a living situation.

You may need to consider memory care if you are concerned about:

  • Safety:  ls your loved one getting lost in the neighborhood or taking too much or too little medication?
  • Caregiver Burnout:  Are you, your parent or a sibling wearing so many hats, it’s becoming unmanageable?
  • Neglect of Hygiene:  Is the person avoiding bathing or other personal care?
  • Isolation and/or Depression:  Did your loved one formerly enjoy various activities or are they missing friends, family?
  • Finances:  Has your loved one been overpaying or skipping bills or a victim of fraud?
  • Living Conditions:  Have you noticed that the kitchen is going unused or spills gone un-wiped?

These are just a few of the signs that may lead you to believe that more specialized care is required. It is a good time to get him or her seen by a capable physician and, depending on the diagnosis, it may be time to investigate whether your loved one could benefit from memory care.

Memory care communities are often specialized Assisted Living communities. Some, like Kensington Place Redwood City, offer round­ the-clock nurse oversight, specific therapeutic diets and specialized training for their staff to better care for and communicate with those progressing through the stages 
of Alzheimer’s and other types of dementia.

Ideally, the person needing care is able to shop with, assist, direct or share their wishes. Many times this is not the case. Families should find out what is important to their loved one. For some, it’ll be social activities and outings to reconnect to the world. For others, it might be healthy meals and friendly gatherings they may have neglected because of health and mobility issues.

Many will want to stay at home with in-home care as long as physically and financially feasible. Every person will have his or her own priorities. Look for a community (or home care provider) that meets their needs and perhaps can try for a month or a season.

You will find valuable resources in the free Argentum Guide to Shopping for Assisted Living which includes things to look for, questions to ask and even some financial options. You will also find valuable resources in your local branch of the Administration on Aging, Alzheimer’s Association, or by visiting Kensington Place.

As someone who has not only helped hundreds of families including six of my own family members, trust me: paying attention to the signs, having a simple conversation, knowing and facing some of the important details before the time comes, is far better than making such critical decisions unprepared.

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Memory loss is life changing for all involved. At Kensington Place, we provide a state-of-the-art memory care program, a higher staff-to-resident ratio than industry standards, and more advanced care services. Our promise is to love and care for your family as we do our own.

For additional resources regarding your loved one’s condition, please read on about our Memory Care, Alzheimer’s Care and Dementia Care.

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